From my long ago I remember giving our son Jim some advice as he departed for a date: "Son, don't forget who you are."   I recall he stopped - looked back - and with a grin and a nod in the affirmative, he left.  I am happy/thankful  to report our son has never brought to his parent any sorrow or pain - he was taught the Word of God - he was carried to church.  No,  reputations do not save us,  but our:
                                                                 "REPUTATIONS DO COUNT"
         
It’s important to have an honorable family name, isn’t it? And it’s good to add honor  to  that  name  by what we do.   This is especially true for those of us in “the family of God” "For whosoever shall do the will of God, the same in my brother, and my sister, and mother."(Mark 3:35). To do God's will is to enter into  an everlasing relationship with Christ.{1st Jn. 2:17}

Christians are  privileged  to have both eternal life and the  chance to offer that privilege to others.    But the example  we set  is important to the credibility of our message.   The way we “live down” a sinful past is to “live up” to the high standards of being a new creature in Christ.  Are you making progress in this regard?

In his book, I Almost Missed The Sunset,  Bill Gaither writes:

Gloria and I had been married a couple of years. We were teaching school in Alexandria, Indiana, where I had grown up, and we wanted a piece of land where we could build a house. I noticed the parcel south of town where cattle grazed, and I learned it belonged to a 92-year-old retired banker named Mr. Yule. He owned a lot of land in the area, and word was he would sell none of it. He gave the same speech to everyone who inquired: “I promised the farmers they could use it for their cattle.”

Gloria and I visited him at the bank. Although he was retired, he spent a couple of hours each morning in his office. He looked at us over the top of his bifocals.

I introduced myself and told him we were interested in a piece of his land. “Not selling,” he said pleasantly. “Promised it to a farmer for grazing.”

“I know, but we teach school here and thought maybe you’d be interested in selling it to someone planning to settle in the area.” He pursed his lips and stared at me. “What’d you say your name was?”

“Gaither. Bill Gaither.” “Hmmm. Any relation to Grover Gaither?” “Yes, sir.  He was my granddad.”

Mr. Yule put down his paper and removed his glasses. “Interesting. Grover Gaither was the best worker I ever had on my farm. Full day’s work for a day’s pay.  So honest.  What’d you say you wanted?”

I told him again. “Let me do some thinking on it, then come back and see me.” I came back within the week, and Mr. Yule told me he had had the property appraised. I held my breath. “How does $3,800 sound? Would that be okay?”  If that was per acre, I would have to come up with nearly $60,000! “$3,800?” I repeated. “Yup. Fifteen acres for $3,800.” I knew it had to be worth at least three times that. I readily accepted.

Nearly three decades later, my son and I strolled that beautiful, lush property that had once been pasture land. “Benjy” I said, “you’ve had this wonderful place to grow up through nothing that you’ve done, but because of the good name of a great-granddad you never met.”

“A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.” (Prov. 22:1).

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Bro. Roy